“Reconciliation”

Tuesday, April 06, 2021

For we will surely die and become like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be gathered up again. Yet God does not take away a life; but He devises means, so that His banished ones are not expelled from Him.”  2 Samuel 14:14)

Behind the scene depicted here, was the tragic turmoil in David’s house. First, his son Amnon, motivated by a perverted desire, had violated his brother’s sister Tamar. Next Absalom, David’s son, took revenge on Amnon and had him killed. Absalom then fled from his father, but David mourned for his son every day.

A wise woman of Tekoa, knowing the situation, is willing to play on David’s sympathy hoping to gain clemency for her own son who is in a similar plight. While she may have ulterior motives, there is some truth to her anxious plea.

The widow’s reference to God‘s “banished ones“ would surely strike a chord with David. Though estranged from his son, a father never loses affection for him. Even David himself had been separated from the heavenly father because of his own folly. All of mankind is alienated from the Lord because of sin.

Although we have forsaken God, he has not forsaken us. “He devises means, so that His banished ones are not expelled from Him.” The wise woman speaks of the ways of God – he does not take away life, but arranges a way by which those who deserve to die may brought back to him.

God’s forbearance toward sinful man is expressed often in Scripture: “The Lord is not slack concerning His promise, as some count slackness, but is longsuffering toward us, not willing that any should perish but that all should come to repentance.” (2 Peter 3:9) God does not seek the death of sinners but has provided a way of reconciliation and full restoration. Perhaps you are the prodigal who has wandered away from God. God is calling you back.

God‘s ways of dealing with us should also serve as a model for how his children should treat others. Our character should reflect his amazing mercy and unlimited forgiveness. (see Ephesians 4:31,32)

The power of this wise woman’s appeal rests in God‘s very nature. He is not bent on punishing us, nor carrying out sentences, but is ready to forgive and bring us home if we are willing to repent.

By George Slover 
 

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